Life & Love
The road I have traveled (and am still traveling) to get to where I am today has been bumpy! But, God has been faithful, the love I have in my heart has remained, my coffee has been strong and my commitment to finding light in the dark has not wavered.
I’m not one to throw the baby out with the bath water, so I must admit that I had some of my greatest wins in 2020! I also had challenges and low moments that made me reevaluate where I was anchoring my identity and self-concept. But, in 2020, just like all the years before and all the years to come, God is faithful and He promises beauty for ashes.
If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’ve read about my marriage journey. It hasn’t been the fairytale that I imagined, by any means. It has been hard and has required daily work. However, the gratitude I have for how far we’ve come in the past three years is beyond my ability to articulate. The pride I feel when I look at James is proof that God’s grace is the real deal.
Right after the new year began, I received a text message from someone in my husband’s life. This text message stated they had “forgiven me.” They listed all the things they had forgiven me of. What?? My immediate response was to press my “block” button.
Style & Fashion
I choose to believe I was born with a love for style and an eye for design. There’s something about looking good that will make you feel good too! Check out some of my favorite classic pieces, closet staples + novelty additions that contribute to my {personal} feel good look.
I would be remised if I didn't mention this truth: no matter what your #ootd is for New Year's Eve, or any day, you're a beauty from the inside out!
My love for black dresses began at a time when I didn't embrace my body and thought I had to conceal the extra weight I gained post-pregnancy.
Health & Beauty
I’m certainly not a health or beauty expert, but I believe in good skincare, healthy choices and a good date-night (or girl’s night out) lipstick! Oh, and a good set of lashes doesn’t hurt either <3
When you’re in an environment, any environment, that often renders you depleted, it is your responsibility, and your’s alone, to recognize that you can’t control the environment, but you can shift the internal conversation. And sometimes that shift requires you to take a minute to breathe, recalibrate, seek professional counsel without shame or fear, reset your self-beliefs and restrategize.
We each have components of our life that we want to improve upon and I want to give you this Monday morning encouragement: love yourself exactly where you are, but make the investment in yourself in order to become who and where you want to be.
You all know how I feel about my lips- when they're naturally full, you better show the Lord you're grateful for them with a good lip color :).
Transitioning from season to season, and region to region isn't easy! But, if you find a good product, your skin won't suffer.
Jesus + Coffee, Then All the Things!
This girl is fueled by coffee dates at the most beautiful places, with the most beautiful company. Let’s have a virtual coffee date!
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James + I loved this place! Best butcher and café in our UK experience.
I spent so many rainy days at this little café, enjoying Cheese Scones + Almond Milk Chai lattes.
I received this little note + gift card the day before my husband cancelled our wedding. Never once think that God doesn’t see you! He will always cushion the hardest of blows.
I’m tired. I have felt all out of tears many times, but this time, I knew what to do. I prayed and asked the Lord to help me navigate these waters of church, politics, community and friendships. Most importantly, I asked Him to realign those tensions with His truth. The word He gave me in response was: repair.